Darling asked:


I’m in the state of Florida and i’m trying to get a divorce, i have a daughter involved as well. My husband refuses to sign, and neither of us have jobs. I heard that i can file it without his signature but what am i supposed to put in regards to the child support questions and custody if there is no agreement? What do i do?

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Austin S asked:


My brother-in-law and his wife may be getting a divorce after 5 years of marriage. She had a child before she met him, with another man. She was never married. My brother-in-law never adopted the child so that they could continue to collect child support from the biological father. If they go through with the divorce, would he have any legal rights for visitation or joint custody or in legal terms is he a complete stranger to the child?

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Ralf M asked:


Me and my wife have decited to split up (no divorce yet). We are in the united states right now but im leaving to go back to germany next week. My daughter is 4 month old and i was wondering how im gonna start to file for custody in germany while my daughter is over in the united states. My daughter also is a german citizen. Thank you for your help.

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Rosemarie M asked:


i have given up everything i was going to school had to quite he was causing to many prolbems i had to quite my job and look for another one. i have a lawyer but i still feel like i Losing to him and I tired of giving in to him. He comes and goes as he pleases and yet I feel like I am a prisioner in my parents home any advice?

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Alexandra asked:


is no longer true. even though the papers are signed and notorized, the situations are totally different. can i still contest in court, because the signed docs. aren’t accurate?

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Robin L asked:


I’m getting a divorce and our 2 children are going to be living with him as I would not be able to provide for them with no job. He’s been the only one working for years. I will be living with my aunt. If he is granted custody, what are the options, after getting back on my feet of getting custody of them.
Thank you.

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Notyme4BS asked:


My wife filed divorce 2 years ago. The judge ordered 50/50 custody and ordered me to pay child support. Since then, we’ve been working things out and neither of us have persued completing the divorce in over a year.

How do we stop the divorce, and do we have to go back to court to stop the child support?

Also, if we split up again will he have to fight for custody all over again?

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Al I asked:


I have two kids, one of them is 13 years old and the other is 15 years old. Me and my wife has been having marital problems for years. She has a history of abandoning me and the kids, then coming back. The last time she left, she attacked my daughter, which Children Protective Service then got involved. They decided not to take the kids, due to she had left the home the night before they came, and my daughter feels safe since she has left. Now I found out she has commited adultery with her bestfriend boyfriend. Do I have a good chance of winning custody of my children in court? Help!!

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MONICA R asked:


Ok, I want to file for a divorce but I am going to continue livin with partner for sake of kids. But dont want nothing from him nor do i want to file for child support or full custody. The packet seems so confusing, it talks about summons and that hes being sued and that we can not be around each other while the court make ther decision or something like that. I just dont understand. I consulted an attorney but im still confused they told me that the court will grant what I want if hes ok with it. The packet says stuff like if thers kids u must fill out the child custody forms and child support. I dont want all of that. again we will continue residing in the same home like a normal family but just not married. Will the court really demand child support and custody forms to be filed? UGH! I just want this over wit….and please no mean comments.
He is behaving in a irresponsible way financially and i dont want him to ***** up my credit over hes stupid decisions. That is why I want the divorce I want to be single and responsible for my own debit. does it make any sense?
correction (my own debt).

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lauren asked:


My husband is a scum bag. Months ago he said I could put a spy program on his computer so I could see if he was still looking at **** all the time. He didn’t realize I would actually do it and since then I’ve not only seen his **** obsession of course, but he downloads disgusting ****** files (we have a baby and he has more kids). He also writes love letters to russian brides and I’ve found out he writes letters to women in prison too. We’ve not even been married 2 years but I gave up my career (which I can’t get back) to be a stay at home mom, which he understood was of vital importance to me if we were going to get married. So he doesn’t know I know any of this and I can’t wait to cover the kitchen counters with screenshots of what he’s done. I want full custody though because I think he’s a terrible influence and I want to be sure he supports me financially so I can be a mom until I can get a new career going and she is in school. His biggest fear in life….
is what people think. And I know he would do anything to make sure that no one found out about all the stuff he’s been into and done.

My plan is to say that I agree to keep his secrets if he will simply pay a set alimony each month and child support so I can care for my child as she deserves. Because her and I do not deserve what he’s done to us, thats for damn sure.

He has a law degree and I know he may try to pull some tricks. Can I tell his family or my friends without him having any action against me? If everything is completely truth and just screen shots of what HE has been doing, as he gave me permission to look, can he sue me for anything? I just want to get this over with! Thanks
Explain to me how I’m the sleezy one when I have been completely faithful, given up my career to be the wife he wants and have his child and he goes out and lies consistently to me and does this bs. He also steals money (25% last time) from his paychecks before they get deposited into our bank account and lies about what he makes so he can keep what he wants, even though we agreed on how bills would be handled… of course he doesn’t know I know that either. Trust me, I have tried everything I can to make this work, he must have thought he would just marry a baby maker and maid and do what he wanted. Not quite a marriage, and not fair to her or I. My career required me to use my hands constantly but having my baby gave me chronic pain and tendinitis - so I literally can not go back to my career. So explain to me how I’m the sleezy one???
I will be going to a lawyer, just wanted to get some input first.

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