tammy2trueblue asked:


It’s been a very long time since my divorce, but my heart seems so empty and I can’t seem to find the faith in another man (it’s been almost 10 years). I have guys that want to date me, but it’s like I can’t bring myself to move on. It’s like my life ended with my marriage. I want to move on and I am praying for help with this. How do I love again?

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8 Responses to “How do I get over my past painful divorce?”

1. NickJlover96 on September 30th, 2009 1:30 pm

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   Find a new guy

2. Marilyn P on October 1st, 2009 3:46 pm

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   i’m glad you wrote this, i hope all the people read it

3. JESSIEBLUE on October 4th, 2009 9:35 am

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   YOU NEED TO FIND YOURSELF ONCE MORE , MOVE ON , YOU MUST

4. no clue on October 7th, 2009 2:29 pm

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   It’s hard I’m in the same place you are.

5. What to do? on October 10th, 2009 11:58 am

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   10 years is a loooong time to carry a torch. Maybe your arm is so used to it, that you can’t imagine not being this way. Perhaps some intervention is in order, or if you have access, some counseling. If you go through life looking back, the danger is that you’ll trip and fall over something you would have seen if you were looking where you’re going!

6. Ol Pete on October 10th, 2009 3:50 pm

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   I am sorry to hear this is happening to you, The biggest thing is you have to choose it, you have to choose to be happy, choose to date and choose to want your dates to be fun. It is sometimes tough to do but you have to want it to be for it to ever be.

7. wholehearted on October 12th, 2009 9:14 pm

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   it does take some time to get over the pain and to ever trust again.
   we are capable of loving again. you have to make a conscious decision that you are going to move on. it is time. do fun things.
   take back your power. you are still giving your ex power over your life by not moving on. it is ok to be single, by choice. since you are asking about loving again, it must be something you want. just begin by enjoying your life. date some. just because you date does not mean you have to love them. once you open yourself up the possibility of loving again, by your intention, and taking back your power..you will be attracting more and more men. somewhere along the line, you will meet someone that has that spark with you. there are so many really good men that would love to be given a chance.
   but, first, give yourself a chance at living and moving on, by filling your life with stuff you like to do. be happy, so you can attract a happy person. in an empty sad state, you may attract the same. so, love yourself first, by all means. you deserve it.

8. Tgirl on October 14th, 2009 3:18 am

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   Keep praying and don’t punish the guys that want to date you because of what happen with the guy you had been married to. Open your heart and let love in. You deserve to be happy and have someone to share your life with. I know it is hard and time really doesn’t heal, time only deals.